I wrote this one in the midst of the last year of coming to the end of my rope.
The word qavah is the Hebrew word translated “hope” or “wait” in places like Isaiah 40:31. It is a primitive root with a basic meaning of “to bind together, possibly by twisting.” I find that interesting. I also find it very interesting that (at least that I can see) the Septuagint (the Greek translation of the Hebrew Scriptures) pretty consistently translates qavah as “endure,” or literally to “abide under (pain, suffering, etc.).”
As I put it in another poem, To wait is to hope is to endure pain / Sanctification like begging for rain.
This poem helped me trust God more and see some of his design as he taught me to start enduring through the junkloads of shame that have needed excavation in my life. (I am by no means done with this lesson.)
My last post, “Asking for Orbit” dealt with “It’s about God, not about us” as it applies in my highly-prone-to-implode life. This one is my (much longer) poem with me wrestling out some of how that sentiment might play out when the God it’s “about” is the God revealed in Jesus Christ, one who is in his very essence agape love.
(My theological “Spidey-senses” go off sometimes at some of the places or ways we take the concept of God as supreme, the source, the end, the only one worthy, etc. )
Hope you enjoy it. As always, your comments or thoughts are welcomed … it’d be fun to grab coffee and talk more about any of this!
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How many times over my 34-year Jesus journey I’ve heard some form of saying “It’s all about God” or “It’s not about us.” A true sentiment indeed.
This particular form (this poem) comes from my own life — as an Enneagram One who unhealthily goes to a Four, I seem to be unusually skilled at making it all about me. And it turns out that at least I can even make not making it about me … about me.
So… if you want to read this “cold” and see how it hits you/try to figure it out, just read the poem below and don’t read the paragraphs below it. 🙂
So…
I wrote this poem when I was thinking about pride and shame and self-love and self-hate and my life. Specifically, I think what we usually call pride is often technically more related to something more like hubris, i.e. arrogance or too high a view of oneself. But I wonder (and have for some time) if that’s just the head side of the pride coin … with shame being the tails side. I think we tend to see pride as the big daddy of sins, the one that took the devil down, with shame as less toxic than “pride” … but I think shame IS pride, just the back-side of it. (Refusing to accept God’s opinion of us, whether our counter-opinion over-focuses on our dignity or our depravity, is, at the end of the day, still a deliberate REFUSAL to submit to what GOD says, no matter what we feel or think.) I over the course of my life have excelled in both, with hubris probably being more prominent in my younger years, and shame taking the lead role as I’ve gotten older. But especially as an Enneagram One, this two-sided coin is my constant companion and nemesis. Hence the poem … could I just let it go?
The imagery of this poem is (and hence the title) drawing from Frodo’s journey to and quest to throw the One Ring into Mount Doom.
I could say more but that should get you if it wasn’t very meaningful. People ask me all the time when they find out I write poems if I like this-or-that poet, or they recommend poetry, etc., and I find it a bit funny that not only have I read crazily little poetry, I have a great deal of difficulty even reading poetry. The more poetic the biblical books (say, e.g., Isaiah), the more challenging they’ve been for me. And while I love song lyrics, the same applies: The more poetic (aka allusive/obscure/etc.) they are, the more I’m like “?????” So whenever someone understands or finds my poems meaningful, I’m honored and impressed and, frankly, humbled. Because I don’t think I could figure them out/get much out of them if they weren’t my own! (Maybe that’s why God is having me write them haha, it’s the only way I can really benefit from poetry.)
Hey. Just got back from the Ichthus trip to East Africa … what a great trip for so many reasons. I’ve been feeling poemish (I suppose I should say poetic, but I sure do love inventing words) lately, and I wrote like 10 of them over the course of the trip. I like several of them in particular, but I think this one’s my favorite of them all. It came after the man who was leading our morning devotional time read John 1 as part of that day’s reflection and I was thinking about animals, there and throughout.
Super cool that just a few days later I was actually seeing lions on a safari! 🙂
I was walking along today and one of the lines of this poem I wrote about a year ago came into my mind, so I went back and re-read it … and liked it … so I decided to post it.
This poem was originally spurred by my musing on the “Forgive as the Lord forgave you” line in the Lord’s Prayer, which led me to the teaching on forgiveness in Matthew 18:21-35 … so that’s the backdrop!
So. I have OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder). Not the cultural idea of OCD where I line my clothes up in the closet according to color and size and such, the one that people who aren’t very organized sometimes wish they had more of, but the actual mental disorder that tries to fill my life with anxiety and pretty much super sucks.
My obsessions largely fall into what has been called “scrupulosity” (excessive religious concern). My compulsions are mainly mental — thoughts and counterthoughts and more thoughts trying to turn this crazy alarm off in my head, to achieve a settled intangible feeling or sense that I thought it “right,” or it “counted,” or such. I don’t deal with the handwashing/germ thing, at least not now, and I’m really thankful for that. Nor am I stuck in checking rituals (is the door locked, did the iron get left on, etc.) but I definitely relate to that one and have had some forays into it over the years. I do note and am mildly troubled by thoughts like stabbing people in the eye or smashing them in the face, but stay out of related compulsions. But I DO have ugly and troubling thoughts about people burst unbidden (who would bid them? yuck!) into my head and I am unable to dismiss them. They sometimes even come with an unction/appeal that seem to indicate I am an incredibly depraved and gross person and they beckon me to leap into deep pits of shame, but it turns out that even this is or at least can be a feature of OCD.
There’s a whole story behind this, but as I look back, I realize that I’ve had OCD for a long time and it explains a LOT about a LOT. It explains my academic pursuit of not just getting A’s but not missing any points (and whoo boy, I developed a full-fledged compulsive checking and counter-checking ritual related to the way I took tests. Somewhat effective, but so ill.) My agony over wondering if I should stay in a relationship with my then-girlfriend/now-wife Jeanette was a TOTAL OCD episode. There were lots of other agonies as well. But I didn’t realize what was going on, so it became very dark and confusing — why do the things that other people do in relation to God work for them, but they just DON’T for me? Why on a drive to Topeka do I intend to pray for a number of things and only end up praying for two of them, with a terrible sense at the end that I didn’t even do that? It jacked with my Bible reading — (most other reading too) — I read everything at least twice, and sometimes many times more than twice, seeking the sense that I read it “right.” It totally ravaged my personal prayer life. It complicated close relationships. And on and on.
I am deeply thankful that in November of 2018 God showed me (there’s a story here, and I may tell it sometime, but I’m tired and this post is way longer than I intended it to be, and it’s not crucial now …) that I had OCD in a way that I actually began to attend to it. Lots more I could say about that, especially about the therapist I saw (he actually wrote the book that God used to show me I had OCD) and how God used him (along with some other things) to pull me out of the pit I was in.
But all I want to say for THIS post — the whole reason I said I had OCD — is to say that quite a few of my poems have been about OCD, and pretty much EVERY poem is a neurologically therapeutic technique to help my brain work/function better — to integrate. I NEED to keep writing … it’s so good for me.
So here’s a poem I wrote as I was reflecting on OCD and also as a way to get unstuck as I thought about it. (I get stuck in thought about a lot of things. I am tempted to become very frustrated about this. But I actually genuinely see my OCD now as a gift ala Paul’s thorn in 2 Cor. 12. Perhaps more on that later. Enough writing. It’s becoming compulsive … sheesh!)
(The poem’s title and a line in it is a reference to a song by Blindside. Great band.)
Hello. It’s been a little while. It occurred to me that if I could shrink the time to publish a post, I’d probably do this more. That and if I had a sense that anyone actually read these, haha. Still waiting for my first comment… Anyway, I think I’m going to just do a screen shot for the actual poem, I’ve been sharing them that way for a while with people via text and such, and I love the ease. Not quite as sharp pixel-wise as I’d like, but hey, we perfectionists need to chill out on things like that.
This particular poem was me musing on Hebrews 12:1-3 before I went to a gathering where it was the sermon’s text. Hebrews 12 has long been a treasured chapter to me. When I was a young believer, I was captured by the first verses in particular; when I was finally reaching the end of my rope in 2018, it was the whole chapter and particularly the lengthy section on enduring hardship as discipline.
(Trechomen is the word in the Greek text for “Let us run” by the way…)
The second poem I posted was called “Finding John Davidson.” It was inspired by Psalm 27. This one’s inspired by Psalm 27’s author, and his Author, and … well, I hope you enjoy it.
JOHN DAVIDSON INDEED
standing over the body
the shepherd turns and says to me
a bigger giant’s coming
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but as the ominous music rises
he grins and says no no
that whole lion and bear thing?
still applies
the bigger they are and all that
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then he hands me his sling
(he apparently has a spare
because he’s got four more stones)
and he grins again
and hands me a pouch marked ‘special’
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I open it and shake out a single diamond the size of a man’s hand
without blemish and beyond Hope
iridescent and flaming
breathtaking and giving
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this can’t be right I protest
what if I lose it?
this should be behind glass and ropes and stern-faced men
but as he runs to his next battle
he says trust me
his laughter pealing and surrounding
oh just trust me
you already got the king’s daughter
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so not without a degree of misgiving
I lay the stone in its cradle
all gold and blood and fire
and like my muscles were made for this moment
with eyes scanning the horizon
I find myself beginning to twirl
We had an “Art Night” at the last Ichthus Thursday night meeting of Fall 2020 and, alongside some delightful student offerings, I read this one there. I chose it because it represents sort of an ‘aha’ moment for me about the role of art. I have found that writing poetry over these last three years has been therapeutic — specifically, super healthy for my actual brain with its sin-riddled disintegratory tendency to be left-brain heavy (see “The Station Will Be Truly Grand” for related themes). So as we had a night celebrating God’s gift of art and even HOW and WHY it is such a gift, it was fitting to read a poem where I realized how poetry itself, the very genre, might be an essential component of why songs/Psalms of lament “worked” so well for the Hebrews. The ‘aha’ actually came when I was in a pretty mentally anguished state and had the thought to try to write/wrestle it out in poetry … the hard-to-put-into-words joy that poetry is began to seep into my agony to where, lo and behold, the world seemed a bit lighter by the end of the poem… When this happened again within the week, I took note, as for me, journaling/prose has NOT always been a tool to help ease my mind, but can actually find me in an even blacker hole. (I know for others journaling does help, and it actually used to help me. But there was something just different about poetry … for which I was (and am) grateful!)
PATHWAY TO HOPE Laments are poems— Ah! I get it … like never before That’s why they end happy
A way to be before the Lord Rage and terror, famine, sword Overwhelmed by life and yet Creative joy shows safety net Like Frodo gazing to the sky Perspective burst, despair defy Structured tool to funnel pain Speaks to soul, marries brain
In darkness black and agony A glimmer stirs inside of me Art’s goodness taps a wellspring true And lubricates stuck praise to You Nothing’s changed fear tries to say But true-lens whisper saves the day Something’s changed, that something’s me And Jesus wins the victory
Laments are poems— Unexpected gift to this dear son May I use them and be free
